第一次，只有一次

最近，我读了一本很特别的书。内容是有关生命中的第一次。

还记得生命中的第一个雪糕吗？第一次上学？第一次与异性牵手？第一个男朋友或女朋友？哈。。。

爱情到底是怎样一回事呢？原来，要爱人，先要爱自己呢！爱自己，就是对自己的生命负责任。为自己定下生活的目标，朝着目标奔跑。第二，要爱那爱我们的人。喜欢一个人或合一个人拍拖时，总是花许多的心思千挑万选小礼物来送给对方。有时甚至亲手做小礼物给他。好甜蜜哦！不瞒你说，我也是哦。。。嘻嘻。。。静静想一想，那疼爱我们的人。（我不是指另一半啦）我们有花尽心思为他们准备礼物吗？来一些实际的例子∶ 母亲节，送了什么给那十月怀胎，辛辛苦苦养育我们的妈妈？家里的兄弟姐妹生日时，有预备礼物吗？虽然礼物算不了什么，但是我们可以花尽心思与时间为男朋友或女朋友准备礼物，为什么却不能同样的花点心思与时间为疼爱我们的人预备礼物呢？

爱是什么？

爱是。。。。。
~行动
~不断的学习
~用心去欣赏
~恒久忍耐又有恩慈
~不嫉妒不猖狂不做害羞的事

爱情是。。。。。
~甜蜜
~激动
~眼泪
~吸引
~责任
~接纳
~关怀
~信任

那么真爱是。。。。。
~愿意牺牲自己的时间与兴趣
~愿意为自己花钱
~愿意为自己花心思
~愿意在朋友面前承认关系
~愿意分担忧伤与痛苦

每个热恋中的情侣都会有亲密的动作，我也不例外哦=）

当然可以有亲密的动作，只是需要为双方定下底线。
你的底线是什么呢？

-亲脸
-轻吻
-拖手
-抱腰
-热吻
-拥抱
-为对方吃东西
-拥抱
-帮对方按摩
-坐在对方的大腿
-一起买内衣裤
-以对方的大腿为枕头
-只有两个人去露营
-睡同一张床上

你的底线是到哪里呢？

与对方见面时，我们总是会把自己打扮一番才出门∶] 我们选择的服装会是怎样的呢？露肩？露臂？露大腿？还是端正？可能你会认为露出以上所提到的都不是问题。“我有身材穿，why not?” 对吗？哈哈哈。。。。展现身材，应该啊=] 但是要为对方着想哦！都看光了。。。他能把持得着吗？和他坐在一起，他的眼睛望哪里呀？你的脸？还是那优美又性感的大腿上？

“凡事都可行，但不都有益处。凡是都可行，但不都造就人。无论何人，不要求自己的益处，乃要求别人的益处” 林前10∶23-24

“少年人哪，你在幼年时当快乐。在幼年的日子，使你心欢畅，使你心所愿行的，看你眼所爱看的；却要知道，为这一切事，神必审问你。所以，您当从心中除去愁烦，从肉体克去邪恶。。。。。” 传11∶9-10


相信这2段经文解释得非常清楚吧。。。


祝大家有段蒙神祝福，荣神益人的爱情！一起努力咯。。。。

最后，记得读诗篇119：41-48。

my leg

my tight was so itchy.... got bited by mosquito...

guess wat?

i scratched my tight while the other hand using mouse to play games...

as a result.....

scary man..... i won't dare to do this anymore....

training in dialysis unit

i'm posted to dialysis unit this week for training. Patient with kidneys fail to function needs dialysis. they look darker. According to explanation that i got, their urea waste which suppose to be secreted out thru kidney are accomudated under skin. During dialysis, that is the only time that they can enjoy their food. they need to have some restriction on food taking and amount of water.

let's see some photo

normal structure of our organs

artificial kidney (singel use)

artificial kidney (can be recycle for few times)

dialysis mechine (artificial jidney on the right side - arrow)

new dialysis mechine (artificial kidney on left side - arrow)

got one patient, only 25 years old!!!! pity....

we must take good care on our diet! Less salt, Less sugar, Less oil, Less fat!!!! More water, More vegetables,More fruits!!! in order to stay health. Please think of your love one.....

finally..exam is overed..

Finally, my final for this semester is finished. Feels like sleeping the whole day only. don't know what to do also...(actually many things to do) sign... slept for 3hours in the evening yesterday. And yet, i slept for 9hours last night!!! so scarey..... don't feel like get up from bed...

i was suffered a lot for this exam. the main reason was my grandpa was critically ill and RIP right before my exam.

my grandpa's funeral at my house

His wish to be at buried Tambun, Ipoh

the no of his cemetry

flowers in cross shape

after the burial service, we went for a lunch. as our appreciation to those who attended the service. thename of the restaurant was weird..... and the "food" over there also looks weird.... 1st time in my life....

name of restaurant : UNIQUE

the biggest ever crab i saw in my life

like stones

look like elephants' trunk.....

Africa abalone

how do u find it? ops... time for me to prepare for lunch... today is mt 1st day training at dialysis unit,better be there early. starts work at 12:30pm today...

bye

grandpa passed away.....

i was being told that grandpa is having difficulty in breathing. i quickly rushed back by using public transports. i need taxi, LRT and KTM to reach my house.

God brought grandpa to HIM when i was stuck in KTM. yuet, God really blessed grandpa. He was accompanied by all children except one at oversea till his last breath.

thx a lot for yr prayers. please continue to pray for my family and relatives.


thank you for your prayer.

@.@

final exam is getting nearer............... a lots more to study.....

who can helps me?

between, for those who read this, please pray for my grandpa as he is very ill now.pray that he gets comfort and peace from God, pray for my family and relatives. All of us need spiritually supports and emotionally supports. pray that we're strong enough to face this hard time. thanks a lot. May God bless you!